Symbols by artist Rebeca Méndez
Phyllis was a wizard with needle and thread, and her hands were always busy. She would personalize the fabric of her handmade aprons for countless friends and their children. She’d often work seated under her favorite tree.
It was the snowy winters that lead Phyllis and her husband (Ernest, who died in 2007) to fly to Arizona from their native New Jersey each year. In summer however, she would return east, where her world revolved around her three children, her seven grandchildren and 2-year-old great-granddaughter.
Phyllis loved to read “anything and everything,” her daughter Betty Jean Offutt said. “She was what we called a frustrated librarian.” As a tribute to her, at the Rutherford Public library in New Jersey, her friends donated money so that certain books that represent her interests, including music, mysteries and needlecraft, include a dedication card bearing her name.
“Our church was very important to Phyllis, and Phyllis was very important to us,” said Pastor Andrew Ross of Northminster Presbyterian Church. “We’re family. She lived her life serving all of those around her.” The celtic cross refers to her Irish heritage.
One year Phyllis knit 53 sweaters for students at nearby Cragin Elementary School. She was concerned the kids would get cold.
Phyllis was a gifted quilter. She helped create quilts the church sold two or three times a year to raise money for the mission. Her dedication to the woven craft was also how she wove together the fabric of her life, as a dedicated mother, wife, friend and Christian.
Phyllis was a great cook, known for her baked macaroni and cheese, as well as the elaborate holiday dinners she would organize, where those in the know would know to leave space for her desserts. Saturdays would be devoted to cookie baking for the Sunday Service at Northminster Presbyterian Church.
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